{"id":84093,"date":"2022-08-02T12:16:01","date_gmt":"2022-08-02T17:16:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/milesfortis.com\/?p=84093"},"modified":"2022-08-02T12:16:38","modified_gmt":"2022-08-02T17:16:38","slug":"84093","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/milesfortis.com\/?p=84093","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;How to Spot a Groomer With This 1 Weird Trick&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/dailycaller.com\/2022\/07\/29\/grooming-schools-education-sexual-abuse-children-transgender-groomer-drag-queen-story-hour\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Clinical Steps To Grooming Kids Match Exactly How They\u2019re Being Taught In Schools<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>The steps predators take to groom children for sexual abuse bear a remarkable resemblance to some modern lesson plans in American elementary schools, according to descriptions clinical experts provided to the Daily Caller.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Proponents of introducing Critical Gender Theory curricula and graphic sexual education to young children in schools have rejected the \u201cgroomer\u201d pejorative critics recently began lobbing at them. Still, the grooming methods that experts outlined for the Caller bear a striking resemblance to some of the newer sexual education lessons the fringe political left is pushing into classrooms.<\/p>\n<div id=\"dailycaller_incontent_dynamic1\" class=\"fs-dynamic\" data-slot=\"complete\" data-freestar-ad=\"__728x90 __300x250\">\n<p>The most common tactics groomers employ are cultivating a positive reputation within a community, introducing sexualized topics or imagery to kids, isolating them from their parents, and encouraging them to keep secrets, experts told the Daily Caller. Each of these red flags have manifested themselves in classroom policies or public programs for children across America in recent years.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI can\u2019t think of too many times where I would think that an unrelated person should say, \u2018Don\u2019t say this to your parents,&#8217;\u201d Daniel Pollack, professor at the Wurzweiler School of Social Work at Yeshiva University, told the Daily Caller.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c[Parents] should be informed [about sex education], especially the younger kids are,\u201d Chris Newlin, executive director of the National Children\u2019s Advocacy Center, said. \u201cI\u2019m just not a fan of things being held secret from parents, and kids being told not to tell.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Yet a culture of secrets is exactly what\u2019s cropping up in some schools. The Wisconsin Supreme Court\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/dailycaller.com\/2022\/07\/12\/court-fails-rule-teachers-students-gender-identity\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ruled earlier this month<\/a>\u00a0that a school could institute a policy in which kids change their gender identity without informing parents. In March, a Texas elementary school\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/dailycaller.com\/2022\/03\/21\/austin-texas-pride-week-confidential\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">told 5-year-old kids<\/a>\u00a0not to tell their parents what adults taught during pride week classroom discussions. A new Philadelphia\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/dailycaller.com\/2022\/07\/26\/teachers-hide-childrens-transgender-status-parents-philadelphia-policy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">policy requires<\/a>\u00a0teachers to hide the transgender status of students from parents.<\/p>\n<p>Examples are international, too: in Canada, one school hosted a <a href=\"https:\/\/dailycaller.com\/2022\/06\/08\/canada-school-hosts-youth-pride-dance-no-parents\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u201cpride dance\u201d<\/a>\u00a0that parents were prohibited from seeing.<\/p>\n<p>The dictionary definition of groomer is \u201cthe criminal activity of becoming friends with a child in order to try to persuade the child to have a sexual relationship,\u201d\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.cambridge.org\/us\/dictionary\/english\/grooming\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">according<\/a>\u00a0to the Cambridge English Dictionary. Some critics of sexualized education for kids and programs like Drag Queen Story Hour allege that kids aren\u2019t only being groomed for potential abuse, but are being mentally groomed into a particular worldview regarding sexuality and gender.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p data-inc=\"4\">Christopher Rufo, a senior fellow at the Manhattan Institute who has led a political movement against the teaching of gender ideology in school, as well as other topics, said some educators are undertaking actions that match up well with that definition of grooming.<\/p>\n<p data-inc=\"4\">\u201cMany school districts, including large districts such as Los Angeles Unified, have adopted explicit policies that teachers can facilitate a child\u2019s gender and sexual transition without notifying parents. In fact, the default is to keep these transitions a secret \u2014 the child has to request notification,\u201d Rufo told the Daily Caller. \u201cThis is extremely dangerous and an immense violation of the rights of parents to know what\u2019s happening to their children. It opens up kids to manipulation, indoctrination and abuse.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"twitter-tweet twitter-tweet-rendered\"><iframe id=\"twitter-widget-0\" class=\"\" title=\"Twitter Tweet\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/embed\/Tweet.html?dnt=false&amp;embedId=twitter-widget-0&amp;features=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%3D&amp;frame=false&amp;hideCard=false&amp;hideThread=false&amp;id=1551361206937538561&amp;lang=en&amp;origin=https%3A%2F%2Fdailycaller.com%2F2022%2F07%2F29%2Fgrooming-schools-education-sexual-abuse-children-transgender-groomer-drag-queen-story-hour%2F&amp;sessionId=8ec4857e444841638de81e9998e92f84f2e660d2&amp;siteScreenName=dailycaller&amp;theme=light&amp;widgetsVersion=6da0b7085cc99%3A1658260301864&amp;width=550px\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-tweet-id=\"1551361206937538561\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p>Another key step in grooming is exposing children to sexualized content at a young age. \u201cThey start to bring up some kind of sexual content at some point so that they can start to initiate some contact with the child,\u201d Newlin said, explaining that only trained professionals or parents should be discussing these topics. \u201cWho should be doing that? Professionals, in that kind of setting. I think it\u2019s good for parents to be having conversations with their children about sexuality.\u201d<br \/>\nKids are increasingly exposed to sexualized topics in schools and other community settings. For instance, a recent pride event labeled \u201cfamily-friendly\u201d in Rome, Georgia, featured sex toys, condoms and explicit drag queen performances. One left-wing sex education group <a href=\"https:\/\/dailycaller.com\/2022\/05\/03\/amaze-sex-education-videos-students\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">markets videos<\/a>\u00a0to kids as young as kindergarten and discusses topics including sexting and abortion.<\/p>\n<div class=\"twitter-tweet twitter-tweet-rendered\"><iframe id=\"twitter-widget-1\" class=\"\" title=\"Twitter Tweet\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/embed\/Tweet.html?dnt=false&amp;embedId=twitter-widget-1&amp;features=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%3D&amp;frame=false&amp;hideCard=false&amp;hideThread=false&amp;id=1552006336556195840&amp;lang=en&amp;origin=https%3A%2F%2Fdailycaller.com%2F2022%2F07%2F29%2Fgrooming-schools-education-sexual-abuse-children-transgender-groomer-drag-queen-story-hour%2F&amp;sessionId=8ec4857e444841638de81e9998e92f84f2e660d2&amp;siteScreenName=dailycaller&amp;theme=light&amp;widgetsVersion=6da0b7085cc99%3A1658260301864&amp;width=550px\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-tweet-id=\"1552006336556195840\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p>\u201cIn the fourth and final stage before the contact abuse occurs, the perpetrator prepares the minor for abuse by desensitizing them to sexual content,\u201d clinical psychologist, sexual violence prevention expert and professor of psychology at John Jay College, Dr. Elizabeth Jeglic told the Caller. She said examples can include showing them pornography, talking about sexual experiences or teaching them about sexual education.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis should be a major red flag: adults with institutional power talking about sex with young children is a mechanism that can be easily abused,\u201d Rufo said. \u201cWe\u2019ve seen stories such as one in Pennsylvania in which teachers use casual conversations about sex as the first step in the grooming process.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Oftentimes predators aren\u2019t only grooming children for abuse. Experts told the Caller that grooming the surrounding community in order to gain trust is also critical to creating an environment for abuse.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey are trying to gain not only the trust of the intended victim, but they\u2019re really trying to gain the trust of the people around that victim,\u201d Pollack said. \u201cThey are grooming, if you will, not just that victim, but they\u2019re grooming the institution.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Institutions have been groomed for child sexual abuse before. The Catholic church has infamously dealt with systemic, institutional issues of sexual abuse. Swap the priests out for teachers graduating from colleges with highly subversive approaches to K-12 pedagogy, and suddenly public schools are facing a similar problem.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe goal of gaining trust is so they can easily access the minor without suspicion. Behaviors and tactics include having a good reputation in the community [and] coming across as charming and likable,\u201d Jeglic said.<\/p>\n<div class=\"twitter-tweet twitter-tweet-rendered\"><iframe id=\"twitter-widget-2\" class=\"\" title=\"Twitter Tweet\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/embed\/Tweet.html?dnt=false&amp;embedId=twitter-widget-2&amp;features=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%3D&amp;frame=false&amp;hideCard=false&amp;hideThread=false&amp;id=1552361922472853504&amp;lang=en&amp;origin=https%3A%2F%2Fdailycaller.com%2F2022%2F07%2F29%2Fgrooming-schools-education-sexual-abuse-children-transgender-groomer-drag-queen-story-hour%2F&amp;sessionId=8ec4857e444841638de81e9998e92f84f2e660d2&amp;siteScreenName=dailycaller&amp;theme=light&amp;widgetsVersion=6da0b7085cc99%3A1658260301864&amp;width=550px\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-tweet-id=\"1552361922472853504\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\"><\/iframe>There have been concerted efforts to normalize and positively spin the sexualization of children\u2019s education and content in recent years. Amazon, one of the world\u2019s most powerful corporations, <a href=\"https:\/\/dailycaller.com\/2022\/07\/18\/amazon-sponsors-gender-cool-project-lgbt\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">sponsors a program<\/a>\u00a0to put gender ideology books in schools. Teachers are\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/dailycaller.com\/2022\/06\/03\/teachers-gender-ideology-transgender-nonbinary-schools-washington-post\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">openly explaining<\/a>\u00a0how they push sexualized gender lessons onto young kids and are attempting to normalize the practice.<\/p>\n<p data-inc=\"11\">Many infamous abusers have developed pristine public reputations, leading to shock when their crimes were revealed. Jerry Sandusky\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.nbcnews.com\/news\/world\/second-mile-charity-jerry-sandusky-founded-seeks-shut-down-flna795119\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">founded a charity<\/a>\u00a0for at-risk children in his community and was known as a kind-hearted mentor. Larry Nassar\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/sport\/2018\/jan\/26\/larry-nassar-abuse-gymnasts-scandal-culture\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">was considered<\/a>\u00a0an elite doctor, and girls he abused were told it was an honor to be treated by him. But the new trusted acolytes\u00a0are teachers and men in women\u2019s clothing.<\/p>\n<p>The issue isn\u2019t strictly hypothetical. A Pennsylvania drag queen\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/dailycaller.com\/2022\/06\/24\/pennsylvania-drag-queen-charges-arrest-child-pornography-brice-patric-ryschon-williams\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">was arrested<\/a>\u00a0in June and charged with 25 counts of child pornography after previously performing shows for children. In 2021, a Milwaukee judge\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/dailycaller.com\/2021\/03\/18\/drag-queen-story-hour-lgtbq-milwaukee\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">was arrested<\/a>\u00a0on child pornography charges while acting as president of an organization that offered drag queen story hours.<\/p>\n<p>A Hawaii teacher who <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/CarmineSabia\/status\/1538179659699036161\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">accused<\/a>\u00a0conservatives of \u201cprojecting\u201d when they call people \u201cgroomers\u201d\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.khon2.com\/hawaii-crime\/hawaii-teacher-arrested-for-sharing-child-pornography\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">was charged <\/a>with child pornography and having sex with a 13-year-old.<\/p>\n<p>Major progressive institutions and figures have defended programs like Drag Queen Story Hour and expanded graphic sexual education for young children. The Daily Caller reached out to nearly a dozen advocates or defenders of these programs, and did not receive a response from any except for Montgomery County, Maryland, Council candidate Kristin Mink.\u201cWhen kids go to Drag Queen Story Hour with their parents, they see a princess reading a story,\u201d she said. \u201cTurning that into something sexual because you\u2019re focused on the genitals you assume are under the princess garb is by far the strangest thing happening here.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Rufo disagreed: \u201cActivists have bullied parents into believing that they cannot oppose any conversation about gender, sexuality, and behavior between teachers and students. They have tried to use manipulative language to make parents\u2019 instinctive concerns appear to be a form of bigotry or repression.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis is a dangerous game that will, unfortunately, have negative consequences for the most vulnerable students.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;How to Spot a Groomer With This 1 Weird Trick&#8221; The Clinical Steps To Grooming Kids Match Exactly How They\u2019re Being Taught In Schools The steps predators take to groom children for sexual abuse bear a remarkable resemblance to some modern lesson plans in American elementary schools, according to descriptions clinical experts provided to the &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/milesfortis.com\/?p=84093\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[59,9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-84093","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-education-schools","category-enemies-foreign-domestic"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/milesfortis.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84093","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/milesfortis.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/milesfortis.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/milesfortis.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/milesfortis.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=84093"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/milesfortis.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84093\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":84095,"href":"https:\/\/milesfortis.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84093\/revisions\/84095"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/milesfortis.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=84093"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/milesfortis.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=84093"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/milesfortis.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=84093"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}